Collateral Losses

Collateral Losses

[Translate] Whenever I sit to write, I am already at the middle of it. It’s the beginning...
The Ugly Duckling

The Ugly Duckling

[Translate] Remember the story of The Ugly Duckling, in which a baby swan was hatched and raised...
Seeing Color: Transracial Adoption

Seeing Color: Transracial Adoption

[Translate] Republished by Blog Post PromoterI grew up in several diverse communities, among people...
BlogHer Giveaway

BlogHer Giveaway

[Translate] We hope you have been waiting with anticipation for this giveaway because we think it...

Collateral Losses

China, Culture, Feature, Korea, Trauma, adoptee — July 28, 2010 at 3:00 am
[Translate] Whenever I sit to write, I am already at the middle of it. It’s the beginning that always befuddles me. I never know where to start. That is because, in this conversation at least, there is no beginning for me. There is now, and there is tomorrow, but yesterday is shrouded in loss. Lost people, places, memories. Lost senses. I feel like a table that has lost a leg – continually propped...

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Homecoming

Homecoming
[Translate] My son came home last night.  It’s been six weeks since I last saw him.  I’m really reaching...
Jul 23, 2010 9:35

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Collateral Losses

Collateral Losses
[Translate] Whenever I sit to write, I am already at the middle of it. It’s the beginning that always befuddles...
Jul 28, 2010 3:00

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

Featured Writer: Marcie

Featured Writer: Marcie
[Translate] I am passing the torch. Last month I was interviewed for the featured writer post. So, this month it is my...
Apr 4, 2010 0:01

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BlogHer Giveaway

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[Translate] We hope you have been waiting with anticipation for this giveaway because we think it is the biggest one...
Jul 26, 2010 20:09

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Collateral Losses

Collateral Losses
[Translate] Whenever I sit to write, I am already at the middle of it. It’s the beginning that always befuddles me. I never know where to start. That is because, in this conversation at least, there is no beginning for me. There is now, and there is tomorrow, but yesterday is shrouded in...
July 28th, 2010 | China, Culture, Feature, Korea, Trauma, adoptee | Read More

The Ugly Duckling

The Ugly Duckling
[Translate] Remember the story of The Ugly Duckling, in which a baby swan was hatched and raised by a duck? The mother duck could teach the ugly duckling everything there was to being a duck, but she couldn’t teach him about being a swan. The baby swan was perceived as an outsider and, therefore,...
July 27th, 2010 | Advocate, Culture, Feature | Read More

Seeing Color: Transracial Adoption

[Translate] Republished by Blog Post PromoterI grew up in several diverse communities, among people of all races and faiths. My parents taught me from a very young age to do as Martin Luther King, Jr. advocated: to judge a person by the content of her character rather than by the color of her skin. I...
July 26th, 2010 | China, Feature | Read More

BlogHer Giveaway

BlogHer Giveaway
[Translate] We hope you have been waiting with anticipation for this giveaway because we think it is the biggest one we have ever done here at GIMH. It’s so big that we actually had to find a bag for you all to carry your loot home from BlogHer! If you are an avid reader of GIMH then you know...
July 26th, 2010 | Feature, review | Read More

Russian Permit for Adoption Activity

Russian Permit for Adoption Activity
[Translate] 1. Agencies with a Russian Permit (formerly ‘accredited’) 2. Agencies with Russian NGO, but not a Russian Permit for  Adoption Activity ======================================================================= Here are the Agencies granted a “Russian Permit for Adoption...
July 26th, 2010 | Countries, Feature, Russia | Read More

Adoption Carnival: Your Favorite Posts

Adoption Carnival: Your Favorite Posts
[Translate] This summer has been hectic for all of us at GIMH and it’s not slowing down any. Seven of us GIMH writers are gearing up for BlogHer. Claudia is pounding the pavement for Adoption Rights. Kristen is crossing her fingers in anticipation of BlogHer Voices of the Year AND the BlogLuxe...
July 25th, 2010 | Feature | Read More

Homecoming

Homecoming
[Translate] My son came home last night.  It’s been six weeks since I last saw him.  I’m really reaching right now to find the right angle for writing about this.  But, the truth is more boring.  He came in and it was all the same. We were both excited he was there.  I felt like love...
July 23rd, 2010 | Attachment | Read More

13 Things I want to teach my boys

[Translate] This is for Notes from the Trenches who is working on a project… Things I Want to Teach My Two Boys 1. To be smart with money and always earn money in an honest manner. 2. To love a woman so deeply she will never question it. 3. To value education. 4. To respect others opinions,...
July 21st, 2010 | Feature | Read More

The future of the Adoption Tax Credit

The future of the Adoption Tax Credit
[Translate] Republished by Blog Post Promoter What is the future of the Adoption Expense Tax Credit? Unfortunately, the Adoption Expense Tax Credit as it currently stands is scheduled to “sunset” (as in, ride off into) beginning December 31, 2010. Actually, this credit is one of a host...
July 21st, 2010 | Feature, Tax | Read More

In Which I Bribe My Children

In Which I Bribe My Children
[Translate] I used to be someone who silently judged moms who parented in strange ways. I watched neighbors and family members do things with their children that I swore I would never, ever do. I would cast a wary eye when they popped a sucker in their mouth in church, when they opened a bag of chips...
July 21st, 2010 | Feature | Read More