Why are we all here? Why do you believe in God? Why do we kill one another? Why is this charge on my cell phone bill? I challenge you to get a straight answer from anyone on any of those questions.

My sister is adopted, have I mentioned that before?

She was adopted through a private adoption, arranged before her birth, by my dad and step mom. That was the summer of 1993. I wasn’t 18 yet.
I …

In my last post I said we need to talk about adoption, about adoption reform, about our experiences. That got me thinking about how hard it really is. And as always, the below does not apply to everyone, just everyone I seem to meet.

Think about the last time you met another adoptee. Did they tell you that they were adopted, or did someone else bring it up?