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I’m Feeling Adopted
August 6, 2010 – 10:51 am | 3 Comments

The feelings and phrasings of adoptees are unique, subtle, and finely accented. If one wants to become fluent, many years of study are required.

Collateral Losses
July 28, 2010 – 3:00 am | 10 Comments
Collateral Losses

Whenever I sit to write, I am already at the middle of it. It’s the beginning that always befuddles me. I never know where to start.
That is because, in this conversation at least, there is …

The Ugly Duckling
July 27, 2010 – 12:01 am | 8 Comments
The Ugly Duckling

Remember the story of The Ugly Duckling, in which a baby swan was hatched and raised by a duck? The mother duck could teach the ugly duckling everything there was to being a duck, but …

What I Wanted to Say . . . Adoption and The View
June 19, 2010 – 8:48 pm | 5 Comments
What I Wanted to Say . . . Adoption and The View

Well, my fifteen minutes on The View is up. Despite a slightly mortifying gaffe, I was glad to share a bit of our adoption story on a national media outlet.  Leading …

Neither, Nor (or how I learned to hate my face but lived to find some beauty in it)
April 28, 2010 – 7:00 am | 11 Comments
Neither, Nor (or how I learned to hate my face but lived to find some beauty in it)

I saw a photo of myself taken last week,  and it was surprising.  This happens to most people, I think.  We have an idea in our minds of what we look like, and it is …

“Mother and Child” Upcoming Adoption Movie Review
April 25, 2010 – 8:00 am | 6 Comments
“Mother and Child” Upcoming Adoption Movie Review

Shown already at both the Toronto International Film Festival and Sundance, “movie” reviews hail the performances of the main characters played by Annette Bening, Naomi Watts, and Kerri Washington as both Oscar Worthy and also sang praises for Garica who was both writer and director. I, however, do not pretend to be a true film critic, but rather look upon anything adoption related for it’s true views and media portrayals of adoption. It was with my birthmother “adoption eyes” that I viewed the Screening of “Mother and Child” at the Sony Private screening room in NYC this past Monday evening.

Sunday Showcase-Positive Stereotyping is Not Always Positive
March 7, 2010 – 7:31 am | 3 Comments

We missed our Sunday Showcase last week because of the Carnival. We’re back this week with a fabulous article from Uncharted Parent. She originally gave me this post,  How Much of Your Child’s Birth Culture …

Kids and Culture: What’s Most Important?
February 24, 2010 – 8:00 am | 5 Comments

Every year for Chinese New Year, our foster home celebrates the holiday by engaging in all the most common traditions – decorating the home with paper cuttings and chuen lian (door post hangings), lighting fire crackers, eating lots of oranges, making jiaozi (dumplings) and stuffing ourselves until we all want to nap. (Though the food is different, the actual cultural practice is similar to America’s Thanksgiving!)

Family Meals: Branching Out
November 16, 2009 – 7:27 am | 5 Comments

Last year, our family took a trip to Panama and Costa Rica with my parents.  My kids loved tasting tropical fruits that they hadn’t seen before.  These fruits come in fantastic shapes, sizes and colors, …

Crafty Kids:Romanian Horezu Rooster
November 10, 2009 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments

Tired of turkey crafts?

Why not try a Romanian Rooster?

Romania is known for its beautiful traditional pottery. A popular motif is the Horezu Rooster. Download the template provided to make your own beautiful rooster.