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Seeing Double
July 14, 2010 – 7:49 am | 9 Comments
Seeing Double

One guy that I truly didn’t miss from my childhood was my middle school principal. He always found the fact that I was adopted fascinating.

The Not Adopted
June 23, 2010 – 8:00 am | 2 Comments
The Not Adopted

Sometimes I see them again. I am walking around the orphanage, wearing a baby carrier; my daughter is snugly and safely ensconced within. She is looking out, seemingly disconnected from the familiar scenes. I feel somber …

People Say the Darndest Things
June 14, 2010 – 6:31 am | 4 Comments

I have a friend, a very good friend, who is 35 and pregnant. Yeah, I know that is not news. What is the news about her pregnancy is that she has a 16 year …

finalized
June 8, 2010 – 8:11 am | 2 Comments
finalized

In a shocking display of government efficiency, we finalized Kembe’s adoption today!  He has been home from Haiti for three months on humanitarian parole, and we were thrilled to have the judge recognize his …

The Lifebook
June 7, 2010 – 1:14 pm | No Comment
The Lifebook

Many adoptive parents create a Lifebook for their kids – it’s basically a scrapbook that tells the story of their life before placement.  We made one for Jafta, our first adopted son, when …

Of Magic and Disillusion
March 26, 2010 – 8:10 am | 4 Comments
Of Magic and Disillusion

Some folks think that adoption is magic. I don’t mean magic in the rainbow farting ‘isn’t adoption wonderful?’ kind of way, I mean magic in the ‘abracadabra, you’re a different person!’ kind of way. …

Details to Ponder
March 16, 2010 – 9:59 pm | 3 Comments
Details to Ponder

Republished by Blog Post PromoterThough many are familiar with some basic details of adoption and foster care, it can be hard to find information on the typical foster adoption. The reason: there is …

How Could People Steal Children?
February 3, 2010 – 7:41 am | 5 Comments

I read an article this morning that just broke my heart. Okay, it didn’t break my heart. It angered me beyond anger. It pissed me off. It made me want to…well, I don’t know.
I haven’t …

Considering Adoption? Here’s What You Need to Know
November 14, 2009 – 7:15 am | 5 Comments

By: Laura Roe Stevens (View Profile at Divine Caroline)

If you are considering exploring adoption, but the idea of calling an adoption agency seems terrifying—you’re not alone. Many people who adopt first found themselves in this window-shopping …

Feeling Guilt as an Adoptive Parent
October 24, 2009 – 8:00 am | 5 Comments

Adoption entered our lives in a very personal way five years ago this month. Five years ago, my husband and I walked out of our RE’s office for the last time. He had handed us …